My life sucks so like save me?

Oh god, i hate this kind of people. You know those that whine that their 'friends have no time for me' and 'this is so socially awkard so please give me solutions'. I have a lot of these kinds of friends.

See, they are all slightly friendless (don't be fooled by their long friend links) and they like to whine and whine about how people don't pay much attention to them and how 'friends are never there' and some other emo stuff.

For example:

I said: Well, eveyone got their own life to lead and it is a tad selfish to ask others to put their life on hold just to hear your problems.

am i really being selfish? i thought friends would lend you their listening ears, their shoulders to cry on, their arms for a nice warm hug, their sleeves for you to blow your mucus into when it starts flowing out. because, if my friend really needed someone to talk to, i know i'd try my best to listen.

Oh sheesh, everyone cries some point in their life. You just happen to cry more. So what, you want everyone to stop whatever they are doing to comfort you? Please, we can only do this so many times before you treat you little emotional problem as a daily occurence.

Next i said: If you would be a bit more trusting and less cynical, perhaps you can see the comfort you are looking for. The 2nd scene is just too familiar to me.

Trust people more? i've tried. but people abuse that trust. i'm tired of this deceit. less cynical? it flows in my blood, i guess.

Oh well, we can never break this endless cycle of emo-ness unless you try again and again and again, until you got your result. Don't be afraid of failing just because you've been hurt once. If i was like you, i'd be dead now. Really.

And the last thing i said: I think the most you can do it to avoid such situation and you'd be fine =/

let's see. by avoiding such situations, i must be an outcast/anti-social person (which i partly am already) AKA stop going out with anyone to prevent any conversations from taking place?

For goodness sake, i'm not telling you to cut off all ties with civilizations! If you don't feel like being in an awkward group where you are 'forcing a smile on your face, trying to fit in their conversations which you barely understand, simply because you dont hang out with them often. you ask them questions, they dont hear you. you try to speak but you keep getting interupted.' then don't do it lah~ Find a group where you truly belong and where they accept you for who you are.

So stop the bloody sulking and help youself. We can only help you if you help yourself and stop saying they don't care about you. I know because i fell into this spiral of doom.

You hope your friends will pay attention to you, so you create problems and surprise surprise they paid attention to you. But soon the attention wears off and you try the same trick over and over again. Eventually you friend will just brush off pathetic attempt to get their attentions as a stunt pulled by the attention-seeker.

Do you want to be labled at an attention-seeker? Don't think so.